tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3268441232099307652.post389387274296979686..comments2023-11-04T09:19:11.719+00:00Comments on Little Mama Murphy: Que Sera SeraLittle Mama Murphyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02807052833900011141noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3268441232099307652.post-77969261612511549082012-02-05T22:37:21.135+00:002012-02-05T22:37:21.135+00:00Jane, blue sky & hopeful mummy, thank you all ...Jane, blue sky & hopeful mummy, thank you all for reading and commenting. You're right, it is important to live in the present and enjoy it. And yes, the people that know h do and will see the lovely wonderful person that he is and not the disability. Those who can't see that shouldn't matter. X xLittle Mama Murphyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02807052833900011141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3268441232099307652.post-13045454928320427722012-02-01T19:57:38.455+00:002012-02-01T19:57:38.455+00:00omg! what a post... we learn to appreciate that th...omg! what a post... we learn to appreciate that the future is now, that with each moment you will learn a little more about your child and love them more too.you will cope with the future no matter what happens - you probably can't see that now but you will. h is here with you now, in this moment, enjoy him - you see past his disability and those who are priviledged to know him will too. who knows how long we will have our children - but then every parent is in the same position - no one knows what the future holds and it's probably just as well xxxh0peful mummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03065600149249551888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3268441232099307652.post-80942385898089995292011-12-18T00:59:18.656+00:002011-12-18T00:59:18.656+00:00Reading this post I can see why you found my letti...Reading this post I can see why you found my letting go post terrifying! You've got so much going on with Little H now, I don't blame you for wanting to bury your head in the sand about the future. I remember finding it really hard to look at learning disabled adults when Chrissy was a child. I couldn't imagine Chrissy looking like that. Now I'm here I can see a mile off the people who look at Chrissy without really seeing her - they see the disability instead - but that's their loss! The people that matter to you will still see little H. It will be hard but please try to treasure the happy moments you have with him now. I wish I'd done more of that when my children were small instead of worrying so much xxJanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06317637535170431789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3268441232099307652.post-87651564932381104102011-12-10T22:01:48.943+00:002011-12-10T22:01:48.943+00:00This really touched me in lots of ways. I have al...This really touched me in lots of ways. I have always tried not to look ahead and sometimes that means I've made wrong decisions because I thought that things would stay the same. But they don't. Then again my dd is now a severely disabled 15 year old and she's still lovely and people still love her, yes some people look at her, but many more come over and chat to her and she 'chats' back. I meet so many wonderful people that I would never otherwise have met. Don't worry, you'll be amazed at what you can do and how good life can be xxLooking for Blue Skyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10010049814419812468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3268441232099307652.post-45376389610958062992011-12-10T15:15:22.369+00:002011-12-10T15:15:22.369+00:00Thank you both for reading and for your kind comme...Thank you both for reading and for your kind comments. Hayley your thoughts and prayers do mean a lot - I appreciate them. Thanks again to you both. XxLittle Mama Murphyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02807052833900011141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3268441232099307652.post-48312253346670312832011-12-10T15:11:03.850+00:002011-12-10T15:11:03.850+00:00Thinking about the future is so difficult. I too h...Thinking about the future is so difficult. I too have known mums who've lost their special needs children. It's our biggest fear but you have such a lovely, positive approach to parenting Little H. He's very lucky to have you as his mum xxJanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06317637535170431789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3268441232099307652.post-43932761445923221682011-12-09T12:27:37.841+00:002011-12-09T12:27:37.841+00:00Emma i feel for you so much & you never fail t...Emma i feel for you so much & you never fail to make my eyes well up when i read your posts. You sound like you do an amazing job with Hugh and nobody should have to go through what you are.<br />I wish i had some wise words to say to you but i can't seem to find them. All i can do is send you huge hugs and continue to think and pray for you and your family xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com